By James Nardel
Delivering a perfect best man wedding speech is a challenging
responsibility for many men. While developing such a Best
Speech, one of the main dilemmas many "Best Men" face is to
decide on whether to crack everyone up or to keep it safe and
serious. There are many people who are not good in public
speaking and doing so make them nervous. And if such people
were asked to be the best man or the maid of honor at the
wedding, he/she may panic. But is it such as a big job to
deliver a speech to the public. No! You can also deliver a
great speech, you are fearing as you haven’t tried to deliver
one before. What you need to do to give a good speech at the
wedding is some preparation and be aware of the subject you
going to talk about. If you are well aware of the topic you
easily give a great wedding speech – here “best man wedding
speech” – and keep the interest of your audience.
This article tries to help you in this regard and here are few
tips that could aid one to prepare a best man wedding speech.
· Prepare yourself about what you are going to say. Take your
time to think about what you want others to know about the
groom and the bride, and what you wish them for their future.
· It is always a good idea to write it out (it is not
for you to carry the written point to the wedding, but writing
is always appreciated as it will help you to remember and note
the points once more)
· Identify yourself and your relationship with the groom and
bride. This is quite important as everyone will not be aware
who you are.
· Speak clearly, slowly, and loud enough that everyone need to
hear what you are speaking.
· Start your speech by thanking the parents of groom and bride
if they have paid for the event. If the groom and bride are
footing the bill themselves, don’t forget to thank them for
organizing such an event and inviting everyone to share the
· It is also a good idea to tell a story, funny one-liner or a
joke, or use an inspirational quote.
· Let your guard down. It is ok to show your emotions. This is
one of your good friends wedding, if not your best friends. It
is even ok to cry or becoming emotional.
· Keep you best man wedding speech short, to say 5 to 10
· Finally, end the speech with a message of hope and
congratulate the proud groom and blushing bride.
Nowadays there are several websites which offers free best man
speech with good examples of wedding speeches given by a
or a relative, and of course you will find humorous free
speeches also. Most websites also offer some of the classic
short wedding toasts, touching wedding toasts, and humorous
wedding toasts you can find if you look around a bit.
About The Author: Article by James Nardel, expert author at
www.EasyWeddingToasts.com. For more tips and
on wedding speeches and free wedding speech examples for
wedding party visit www.easyweddingtoasts.com